» DISAPPOINTMENT! by: Swaggababe .:. Wed, 27 Aug, 2014 - 02:26:32:pm GMT
Am pretty and very intelligent but my relationships do not last.i went to see a man of God who told me that i have a spiritual problem and that if i do not fight it,i might end up alone in the future.am so confuse right now.please advice me on what to do.
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Re: DISAPPOINTMENT! by: Funmo .:. Wed, 18 Feb, 2015 - 02:43:07:pm GMT
HOW TO HANDLE DISAPPOINTMENTS
Disappointments are part of life. How we handle them and react to them will either make or mar our chances of getting back up after every set back. Some people never recover from disappointments, some do partially, some move on as if nothing happened. You are one of the three. The third set of people are those that actually become successful in the long run. They have passed through the thick and thin of life, and they chose to come out stronger. You can also get to emulate this set. Provided you are ready to pay the price, for nothing good comes easy.
Getting over disappointments comes in varying aspects, just like disappointments themselves. We get disappointments in relationships, careers, business, and every imaginable facet of life. They come in varying degrees. But they can be handled as they come. First off, you have to grow a tough skin towards them. Know that they can appear anytime, and expect them to come. With these at the back of your mind, you are equipped with a cushioning effect in advance. So, by the time they eventually come, you are set to handle them. This is what to do when disappointment comes. Reflect. Reflect on what led to the disappointment, whose fault it really was, how it could have been prevented, what to do next, and then move on, as life always continues. If you can truly follow those steps, you won't be fazed by disappointments rather, you will come out stronger and better a person every time you are disappointment. After all, nobody is perfect, even though perfection is attainable.
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